We drive ourselves crazy trying to figure out why that person we love hurt us, or why that girl we went on a date with never called back or why that old friend betrayed our trust, or why, or why, or why…��And it is exhausting.��It’s not your job to decipher the decisions of others. And simply put, it’s nothing but a waste of your time and energy.��You can never truly know what’s going on inside someone else’s head.��But you can focus on what you do know. The facts.��And then you can focus on mak